Why women should approach men

FullSizeRender 22Most men have endured a lifetime of rejection and by the time they reach sixty they may be so wounded that they are less likely to approach a woman even if they are attracted to you. When a woman goes out in public it is an opportunity to meet the man of your dreams. Regardless of what daily activity you are engaged in, such as running errands, or shopping, or exercising there are likely to be men doing the same thing. If you have the right mindset, you will greatly improve your odds of meeting a man.

Remember that the simple things are important. Smile and make eye contact. The same techniques that you used in your youth still work in your sixties. Try flirting. Ask a stupid question. Men love to solve problems, answer questions, and fix things. Play the damsel in distress. The important thing is to get the conversation started and after that if there is chemistry you will have success. Be aggressive. If you are attracted to a man don’t let past rejection hold you back. Don’t be afraid to clearly define what you want. If you have had a nice conversation and would like to see him again, then tell him so. Men are still boys regardless of their age. Men are also very poor mind readers.

Life is short and everyday you get one day older. Meeting a new friend should not be an expedition, but rather serendipitous. The trick is to be prepared and to put yourself out there when the opportunity presents. Too often women wait for the man to make the first move and the opportunity is lost. Stop waiting and asking yourself what you are doing wrong. Live your life and be open to the possibility of meeting a man at any moment.

Mr Big

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