Author Archive | Mr. Big

What do the kids think?

When seniors venture into the dating arena, many have grown children that have their own opinions about what their parent is up to. There are many different viewpoints on this topic, some positive and some negative. I have met women that claim that their daughter is the one who wrote their on line profile as […]

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First kiss

As the song goes, “A kiss is just a kiss…”. How long do you wait for the first one? A lot depends on chemistry and if both people share an attraction. Post divorce or if it has been a long time since you had a kiss with a new person, even the thought of it […]

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When is it safe?

Visiting a man at his home or inviting him to your home does not automatically mean that sex will be involved. How do you know if it is safe to venture into this realm? It depends on what your intentions are. If you have established a rapport with your date and you know definitively that […]

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Why men operate at a disadvantage

When men and women date in their sixties and beyond there are typically differences in the approach that they take. Women often have a trusted friend or relative that they can turn to to obtain feedback about important decisions such as what to wear, how they look, and topics to discuss. Men frequently go it […]

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When to get off the internet

Dating on line has become an acceptable method to meet people. I find it interesting to read profiles and learn about available singles. The question is that when you meet someone and are dating with them regularly, is it cheating to read mail from other people? I once met a woman on line and was […]

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Does it matter how you became single?

There are several ways in which you may find yourself single at the age of sixty or greater. The most common way is through divorce. Rarely, you may have been single your entire life. There is also the possibility that you are a widow or widower. When losing a spouse due to their passing, there […]

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Honesty is the best policy

When writing a profile, sending an e-mail, or going out on a date it is best to tell the truth. This presupposes that you are truly interested in a relationship with another person. If you are motivated by deceit then dishonesty is the tool that you use to try to get your way. If a […]

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Spotting scammers

An unfortunate aspect to dating is that not everyone is looking for love. Some are only looking for sex and many are looking for money. The on-line dating world is littered with scammers. They come in many varieties including both men and women and men pretending to be women. You go on line and look […]

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Who pays

I recently received an e-mail from a 70 year old woman on a dating web site. She told me that she liked my profile and invited me to read her profile. I did read it, but was not particularly interested in the things that were of interest to her and did not feel that we […]

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