Archive | Dating

OMG, my soulmate

Okay, now you have been seeing the same person for a few months. He might be the funniest, brightest and easiest person to be with. You might possibly think this is what you have been searching for. You may find yourself with the same political beliefs, religious beliefs, and financial outlook. This is exactly what […]

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Keeping the romance alive

When meeting someone you care about, it’s easy for things to be exciting in the beginning and fade as time goes on. You need to make a conscious effort to do the things that made the relationship exciting in the beginning. Soft music, candles, picnic lunches, taking time to talk and really listen to each […]

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Honesty is the best policy

When writing a profile, sending an e-mail, or going out on a date it is best to tell the truth. This presupposes that you are truly interested in a relationship with another person. If you are motivated by deceit then dishonesty is the tool that you use to try to get your way. If a […]

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Spotting scammers

An unfortunate aspect to dating is that not everyone is looking for love. Some are only looking for sex and many are looking for money. The on-line dating world is littered with scammers. They come in many varieties including both men and women and men pretending to be women. You go on line and look […]

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Why women should approach men

Most men have endured a lifetime of rejection and by the time they reach sixty they may be so wounded that they are less likely to approach a woman even if they are attracted to you. When a woman goes out in public it is an opportunity to meet the man of your dreams. Regardless […]

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Single again

Last night we saw the movie “How to be Single”. I found it to be very entertaining  and it made me ponder  what being single really means. The dictionary describes single as: only one, not of several unmarried or not involved in a stable sexual relationship an individual person or thing rather than a part […]

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The balance

I retired a year and a half ago. It is funny, I have worked all of my life in anticipation of the  “golden years”.  I actually doubted that retirement would ever be a reality. Sure, I did save…not as much as I could have though. It is fine line, a balancing act between saving for […]

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Height reversed relationships

In the majority of male/female relationships, it is the guy who is taller than the gal. It is statistically true that men are taller than women, but should this limit men from dating a woman taller than them self? Women often say that the reason they prefer taller men is that they like to wear […]

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Dating your friend’s ex

You are now entering the danger zone. When your best friend breaks up with their significant other, there may be a tendency to consider dating them. After all you have gotten to know them as a friend already and they have gotten to know you in a safe, non-threatening environment. Beware! There are many dangers […]

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First encounter

When you find a new person to date you may have exchanged e-mails and chatted on the phone prior to your first face to face meeting. Selecting the venue for your first date is very important. While there is no magic formula, there are some choices that are better than others. A quiet public place […]

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